The research of the soul mate

According to an old concept of soul, in the moment it has rise, it shows itself as being made of two parts, embodied in two different bodies. Men and Women, have to be considered heads of two big cathegories of opposites, on whom the human experience is thought to grow from: beautiful/unpleasant Light/darkness health/illness life/death ...those opposites are in reality complementar, two faces of the same coin; our duty is to melt them , to reach the re-composition of the "Big Everything" where we come from, and we are part of, and create the alchimy of the two founded essences.
It is important to be able to recognize the real essence in the other one, because when two unhappy people join together, their unhappyness do not get additioned but they multiply it; in reality everything which attracts us just shows something which is part of ourself.
The human experience is leaded by two paths,: the hearth path and the mind path. the first is linked to the "To Be" concept, whereas the second is linked to the " To Have" concept. These paths are not conciliables and do not admit compromises. The choice of "To Have"( mind) always implies the concept to have more and more; you could have the entire world , but when you could have obtained it, you won' t know what to do with that, and you will always remain a beggar. On the other way, the "To Be " path, which is linked to the "Hearth" path , does not admit imperfections: or It is ..... or It is not. And so love. Or it is , or it is not.
The soul mate is not the "white prince" or the "blue fairy" , those belong to novels world and childhood world. There are no conditions or compromises , it is impossible to delegate himself expectations to the other.

When we meet the "true" love ,when we win the real battle against ourself, there will be not other need to be satisfied, everyone will be enough for himself and won' t ask anything to the other ...except for the fact to exist; their dream , will be your dream, he will be a part of yourself: " my tomorrow is just today( the aim is to live "here" and " now", to anchor body, soul and mind in each moment, like it was the only one of my life) you will think about my tomorrow, you who owe me.

"But.......................: "in love who takes and does not give is a tief ( Paramahansa Yogananda)".

In the Astrology the problem of compatibility , the essence inside a couple, could be resolved , in part, through " the comparison of natal birth themes".

Infact thanks to the act of placing on the top of one the other horoscope, ( Natal Chart of him and natal Chart of her) it is possible to obtain a third study where they reveal analogies, and so discrepancies present amongst the two themes: the level of compatibility between the two signs ( triplicities make a fundamental role, because it is evident that the fire goes with air and water with earth); aspects with very small orbit, specially reciprocal conjunctions; aspects with houses; similitudes in aspects or in houses positions; the disposition of axis.

Logically when relations are armonics, there's the tendency to harmony, differently, if not, discrepancies reveal obstacles to go through.